Tom and Violet, a loving couple, get engaged after dating for a year and plan their dream wedding. Tom is a successful sous-chef in San Francisco, while Violet aspires to be a psychology professor. Their plans hit a snag when Violet gets a postdoctoral offer from the University of Michigan. Tom agrees to move, sacrificing his career progression for Violet's professional growth. They postpone the wedding, believing the move will only be temporary, and adjust to their new life. Tom struggles to find a meaningful job, settling for a position at a local deli, while Violet thrives in her academic environment. The stress and challenges of their new circumstances begin to put a strain on their relationship and wedding plans.

As years go by, Tom becomes increasingly frustrated and unfulfilled, growing distant from Violet. Violet's burgeoning career and Tom's dissatisfaction lead to tension and misunderstandings. The couple faces mounting pressure from family and friends to finally tie the knot. The constant delays and increasing strain force them to question their relationship and whether they are truly meant to be together. Their journey together sees them navigating the complexities of commitment, the pursuit of personal dreams, and the willingness to compromise in order to maintain their love and connection.